So often we have a hard time claiming what we want.
Maybe because a part of us feels like we are not worthy of it...
Or deep down inside we truly believe that this person we are with may not be capable of giving us what our heart’s deepest desires.
Or we are dating someone and they don’t hit all the points on our wish list and we grow disappointed. We become afraid there won’t be someone else out there that is a better match, so we end up settling for a person that meets only some of our needs… abandoning some of our most precious non-negotiables.
But claiming exactly what you want is a natural filter because it eliminates those that don’t want the same things as you.
Because this journey is about you choosing, not being chosen.
This is, truly, unapologetically claiming your worth!
It’s about you saying NO more often to people that don’t feel good.
It’s about you building self-worth on your terms and that alone is the embodiment of self-love.
So you don’t compromise,
You don’t’ settle for sh*tty behavior and for people that half show up!
So your voice gets louder and your intuition gets stronger… so you can choose better people.
Remember, you don’t get what you don’t as for 100% of the time.
Claim it, my Kings and Queens!