People that go from relationship to relationship often use them as a way to avoid their own wounds. And by never taking time to be alone or single they also never take the time to face and heal those wounds.
Relationships are an opportunity to go heal our wounds. There is no question. If we accept the invitation. They are a speedway to revealing those childhood patterns that stemmed from our own unique environments we grew up in.
There is no question relationships are an opportunity to go heal our wounds. If we accept the invitation. They are a speedway to revealing those patterns that stemmed from our own unique environments we grew up in. But often it can be very subtle. To the point where we are not even aware of those patterns and we keep repeating them because we don't take the time to go inward to understand them.
Because going in feels uncomfortable and we would just rather move on to the next person to unconsciously shield ourselves from that pain.
Unfortunately, it's unsustainable because we just repeat the same patterns and relationship breakdown from not healing properly.
NOT from the person, from the relation to this person & yourself.
Look, breakups are hard. I get that. But once you "move on" from the other person, you are still there. With the same old patterns, tendencies, and habits. Maybe even lacking confidence or an understanding of what actually happened deep inside.